When a man is young

Cutie and the BoxerWhen a man is young he is overcome with energy and seeks release. One moment he is risking his life at a new sport, and the next he is deeply absorbed in a book. New friends and women are drawn to him for he is generous and laughing, but his passion leads him to argue, and in its wake his heart is ashamed. He yearns, when he hears stories of men whose lives were as brilliant as they were brief, to find glory, and gives no thought to safety and family. He is the subject of gossip after he is gone. Youth is the time when a man learns what he cannot.

An old man’s spirit grows feeble; he seeks peace in his surroundings. His mind being tranquil, he shuns heavy pursuits. He avoids hassling others, and thinks often of faded friends. He agitates on the flow of time, and even there he is learning to let go. The old are as superior in wisdom as the young are in motion.

*playing with Kenko’s A Time for Ruin

A Time For Ruin by Yoshida Kenko

Yoshida Kenko

When a man is young he has such an overabundance of energy that his senses are quickly stirred and he has many desires. It is as easy for him to put himself in danger and court destruction as to roll a ball. He likes beautiful clothes and possessions and spends his fortunes on them, only to abandon everything for the shabby black robes of a priest. Or, his abundance of high spirits may lead him to quarrel, only to feel ashamed in his heart and envious of his antagonist; his uncertain whims shift from day to day. Now giving himself to his lusts, now moved by others’ kindness, now performing some generous action, he yearns, when he hears stories of men who ruined or even destroyed lives that might have lasted a hundred years, to do the same, and never gives a thought to leading a safe and long life. He is drawn wherever his fancies lead him, and becomes the subject of gossip that lasts even after his death. Youth is the time when a man ruins himself.

An old man’s spirit grows feeble; he is indifferent and slow to respond, unmoved by everything. His mind being naturally placid, he engages in no useless activities. He takes good care of himself, is untroubled by worries, and is careful not to be a nuisance to others. The old are as superior to the young in wisdom as the young are superior to the old in looks.

Discovered in Lapham’s Quarterly; currently reading his Essays in Idleness.